Songs for a Funeral
Deciding the songs for a funeral isn’t the first thing you think of when planning to say goodbye to your loved one but I think they are one of the most important parts of the whole process. The songs are an extension of your emotions and relations to your loved one, helping you remember the good, the bad and the unforgettable moments you shared with them.
Katie and her mother decided the songs, each have a different memory or sentiment attached, some memories I was lucky to be a part of:
1. Nessun Dorma – Pavarotti
My memory of this song with Katie’s nan was just a few months back on Christmas Day. We were all in the lounge and they had the Three Tenors performance playing on Channel 4, with the occasional story from nan about how she remembered them when they sang it etc.
2. Lost – Michael Buble
This song is a personal favourite of myself and Katie. The song is about death and support, that he is always there with his loved one. It’s a poignant song for such an occasion, but we also want the same song at our wedding!
3. Songbird – Eva Cassidy
This song a beautiful song, great lyrics and delivery. There isn’t much relation to nan herself but the song is a fitting tribute.
It IS difficult to do – you sit and listen to songs, rejecting some, putting others in the maybe pile – but when you find THAT song, you know it.
I couldnt agree with you more, You find that the words in some songs say everything you have wanted to say all your life but for some reason, Life got in the way of saying it. The song I feel says everything is a track by Marti Pellow called Hard To Cry.
This song says everything when the loved one has gone
Great site, Keep it going…